First Principles
Limited Bandwidth and Contextuality: All that one experiences over whatever life one has lived, one doesn’t have the capacity to bring it into awareness, either in form of totality or in form of some categorization. Hence, as humans, we use some filters or variables or universals to talk about things in certain context.
2. What has potential to give pleasure, already has the in=built potential to create pain. Whether in form of anxiety or insecurity or fear or jealousy or more.
3. Somethings are learnt by aping, somethings through adversity, somethings by serendipity, somethings by reflection, somethings by doing, and some learnings we are blind to that we have learnt them.
4. Somethings come easy and natural or habit driven. And they have a momentum. Over period of time, if one is not aware, one could lean away from difficult or time-taking or effortful.